• The Kleshas, Dukkha and Samsara

    The Kleshas, Dukkha and Samsara

    The Causes for Our Afflictions and Suffering

    Suffering (Dukkha) is part of the human experience. This is not new, the first noble truth of the Buddha states that there is Dukkha. The Yoga Sutras also refers to Dukkha. According to both the yoga tradition and Buddhism, we exist in a cycle of suffering (Samsara) where we can trace the roots of our misery to the Kleshas (afflictions). But why are we suffering, and is there a way out of this suffering? In this short article, I talk about the Kleshas, Dukkha, and Samsara and I will shortly refer to the yogic answers to these questions.

    What is Dukkha?

    The Sanskrit word Dukkha refers to many kinds of suffering. It can be, but not necessarily always is, extreme suffering, like hunger or terminal illness. Dukkha refers to any unpleasant experience, that you and I, as human beings living in this world, are experiencing.

    This could be the sadness of separation from something or somebody dear to us, frustration, anger, disappointment, insult, envy, failure, loss of any kind, betrayal from someone we trusted, and more. And of course, the existential suffering of knowing that our days here are counted and sooner or later we will get old, maybe become sick, our body will decay, and definitely, we will die.

    The Endless Cycle of Samsara

    Yoga and Buddhism share the belief in Samsara – the infinite cycle of life and death. When something is born, it must die sooner or later (in our relative phenomenal world). Being in Samsara, according to these traditions, is a cycle of suffering from which we need to get out. It’s like a prison from which we can’t escape and are doomed to be reborn over and over again, just to suffer, get old and die. Whether or not you believe in reincarnation, you cannot deny the fact that we are born into this world without choosing to, and when we grow we realize that we cannot satisfy all our desires and cannot control most of the things that happen to us (most notably, we cannot stop the flow of time and cannot stay young forever).

    Furthermore, each day that passes brings us closer to our inevitable death. This sounds pessimistic, but Patanjali and the Buddha were not pessimistic. They analyze, each in his own way, the cause of our suffering, and show us a way out of it!

    The Kleshas, Dukkha and Samsara - The Causes for Our Afflictions and Suffering
    The Kleshas, Dukkha, and Samsara – The Causes for Our Afflictions and Suffering

    Why Do We Suffer? What Are the Kleshas?

    The Buddha, Patanjali, and other spiritual teachers analyzed the causes of suffering, and tell us that the Dukkha we experience is not inherited in the world, but stems from our consciousness (or Chitta). The term Klesha can be translated to affliction and is used by Patanjali to describe a deep cause or root of suffering.

    The Yoga Sutras defines five Kleshas as follows:

    avidya asmita raga dvesha abhinivesha klesha

    Yoga Sutra II.3

    This was translated by B.K.S. Iyengar, as:

    The five afflictions which disturb the equilibrium of consciousness are; ignorance or lack of wisdom, ego, pride of the ego or the sense of ‘I’, attachment to pleasure, aversion to pain, fear of death, and clinging to life

    Light on the Yoga Sutras of Patanjali

    The 5 Kleshas

    1. Avidya is usually translated as ‘ignorance’; but it actually refers to spiritual ignorance or delusion; not knowing what we really are; what is our real essence (which, according to yoga is pure awareness, or Purusha). We are deluded because we think we know, whereas in reality, we don’t.
    2. Asmita is the narrative of our life; the stories we tell ourselves; our opinions; our thought patterns, our habits, our views and so on. Because we don’t know who we truly are, we identify with this story about ourselves and don’t see our true essence (or Purusha – pure awareness).
    3. Raga is clinging to pleasant experiences.
    4. Dvesha is the aversion to unpleasant experiences.
    5. Abhinivesha is the fear of the ego from its extinction; it also means inertia, in the sense of a desire to continue the status quo (which is of course, impossible).

    In what follows I will explain further these 5 Kleshas.

    Avidya – Lack of Spiritual Knowledge

    In Sutra II.5, Patanjali defines Avidya as follows:

    antiya ashuchi duhkha anatmasu nitya shuchi sukha atman khyatih avidya

    Yoga Sutra II.5

    This was translated by B.K.S. Iyengar as:

    Mistaking the transient for the permanent, the impure for the pure, pain for pleasure, and that which is not self for the self: all this is called lack of spiritual knowledge, avidya

    Light on the Yoga Sutras of Patanjali

    We can see that Avidya refers to four types of confusions or delusions:

    • Thinking that the impermanent (anitya) is permanent (See more about impermanence);
    • Thinking that the impure is pure
    • Confusing pain (dukkha) with pleasure (sukha)
    • Not knowing the real Self (Purusha or Atman).

    In Sutra II.4 Patanjali tells us that Avidya is the source of all the other Kleshas, or in his words, the field (kshetra) from which the rest of the Kleshas sprout.

    Let’s see what is the reason for this.

    The Other Kleshas

    If you are deluded about your true nature, then you identify with the phenomenal self, which is your body, mind, and emotions. You hold some narrative about who you are, what is your personal history, what are your preferences, and so on. This is Asmita. This narrative – Asmita, is, according to yoga, false in the absolute sense. You may need it to live in the world, so it is useful at the relative, conventional level, but if you identify with it, and think it’s really who you are, you will suffer. Asmita creates feelings of superiority or inferiority, both are not wholesome. For example, if somebody says bad things about you, or your last publication got negative reviews, you are hurt and suffer.

    Asmita creates our cravings and attachment to pleasant experiences (Raga) and our aversion towards unpleasant experiences (Dvesha). If your happiness depends on impermanent things, like your body, your property, or your relationships, you’ll suffer once they are gone or changed. When you’ll get old or sick you suffer from the betrayal of your body. When the things you own are worn out, get lost, or broken, you will be disappointed and frustrated.

    In our practice, we can observe our likes and dislikes (Raga and Dvesha) and study our tendencies. Some days we may experience more aversion toward the practice, and the hard work and discipline it entails. We may also develop a dependence on our practice, and might not be able to pass a day with balance and serenity if we don’t practice. This is a sort of Raga (attachment). We all have poses that we prefer more than others and maybe are attached to these poses and avoid those that we don’t like. Note that we may be more attached to suffering than to pleasures. Moments of humiliation or situations in which we were ridiculed or made to feel small come back to us much more frequently and with more emotional force than when we were admired or looked up to (which can also cause suffering when this admiration ceases).

    These gravitations and attachments limit our freedom. Yoga calls us to go beyond our likes and dislikes. In fact, the effect of asana practice, according to Patanjali is to be immune to the dualities we experience in life and our clinging and aversions.

    The last, and deepest Klesha is Abhinivesha – the fear of extinction; and more generally, any fear. According to yoga what actually dies is Asmita, our small phenomenal self. If you reflect on it, you’ll agree that the materials and the energy that constitute our mind and body are not dying, they just change form. Nothing can be extinct. What dies is our narrative, our life story that we are so attached to.

    B.K.S. Iyengar divides the Kleshas into three groups: the first two are intellectual; Raga and Dvesha are emotional and Abhinivesha is instinctive. Patanjali says that the instinct of survival – Abhinivesha is found even in wise men, and Vyasa says in his authoritative commentary that it is found in all creatures, even in worms.

    How to Overcome the Kleshas?

    Talking about Dukkha and Kleshas may sound pessimistic, and some people think that yoga and Buddhism have a pessimistic worldview – nothing is far from the truth! Analyzing the sources of our suffering doesn’t create more suffering. You don’t suffer because you studied about Dukkha, but because suffering is a common experience. Yoga explains why we suffer and suggest ways to overcome this suffering. I think that sutra II.16: heyam duhkham anagatam (“The pains which are yet to come can be and are to be avoided”), is the most concise and to-the-point expression of optimism. It says: don’t bother with the suffering of the past, they can’t be changed, don’t even bother with those of the present – instead, practice to avoid future suffering.

    When we suffer we usually blame the external circumstances of our life, or we feel that something is wrong with us. Changing our life circumstances is often impossible and blaming ourselves for our suffering is not helpful. Yoga goes beyond that, by pointing out that the cause of our suffering is the way we perceive and react to the world. Indeed, attempting to improve our external environment in order to decrease unpleasant experiences is so natural for us and so ingrained in our consciousness, that we are not even aware that this is our strategy to avoid suffering. But this is not a helpful strategy. It is more promising, as yoga suggests, to study our aversion-clinging reactions and develop better inner stability and equanimity. In other words, yoga calls us to turn our attention inside and to attempt to change our behavioral patterns. This is not easy, but this is the only thing we can hope to change…

    Yoga asks us to go beyond our identification with our limited personal narrative and to see the true nature of Reality, to see the common basis of all phenomena, and to realize that life is a river that can’t stop, it can only change form. It promises much more than transient pleasures. Ananda (bliss) is happiness that’s independent of external circumstances. Yoga asserts that it is possible for us to come to Ananda.

    How to get to this realization – well, that is not easy, but in Chapter 2 Patanjali gives us frameworks of practice that can help us to get more discretion and wisdom in order to realize our true nature. These are Kriya Yoga and Ashtanga Yoga – which I discussed in another article.

  • Practicing Dana – Help Our Indian Friends

    What is Dana and why is it an important practice?

    Dana (donation or generosity) is a very important yogic practice. Dana opens our hearts and loosens our attachment to our limiting ego. When you share something that you have (time, money, energy) with someone in need, you create brotherhood and sisterhood. As you think about the wellbeing of others, this moves you away from the natural, survival instinct of taking care of yourself only and having a false sense of self-importance. The willingness to share stems from confidence in our own abundance and from the feeling of inter-connectedness that all of us are sharing the same planet. Giving, as a spiritual practice, is done without calculating gain and loss, but for the sheer joy of giving, from a desire to share the abundance we have with others. See more on Dana.

    The Bhagavad Gita says:

    That gift, which is made to one from whom no return is expected, with the feeling that it is one’s duty to give and which is given in proper place and time and to a worthy person, that gift is held to be ‘good’.

    XVII.20; Translation by S. Radhakrishnan

    Any gift that is done whole heartedly and with pure mind is received with gratitude:

    Whoever offers to me with devotion a leaf, a flower, a fruit or water, that offering of love, of the pure of heart, I accept.

    IX.26; Translation by S. Radhakrishnan

    Dana is part of the practice of Maitri (loving-kindness and wishing all living-being safety and happiness) and Karuna (compassion, feeling the suffering of the other, and having a strong motivation to alleviate this suffering). These practices are recommended by Patanjali in order that “the consciousness becomes favorably disposed, serene, and benevolent“:

    maitri karuna mudita upekshanam sukha duhka punya apunya vishayanam bhavanatah chitta prasadanam

    Patanjali Yoga Sutras, I.33

    Which translates to:

    Through cultivation of friendliness, compassion, joy, and indifference to pleasure and pain, virtue and vice respectively, the consciousness becomes favorably disposed, serene, and benevolent

    Translation by B.K.S. Iyengar

    By sharing what we have, we also practice Aparigraha (non-covetousness or non-attachment to property). Giving, being able to help others, brings a lot of joy. And this is one of the worst pitfalls of extreme poverty – you are devoid of the possibility of giving. The Buddha is known to have said that if you would really know the value of Dana, you wouldn’t eat a single meal without sharing it with the hungry.

    How can yoga practice help with Dana?

    In order for us to give, we need: the ability to give, the knowledge of how to give and the will to give.

    Our Asana and Pranayama practices can help us in all three aspects. Our practice gives us health, vitality, and energy. A sick person or one devoid of energy cannot give. The practice strengthens us physically and mentally and hence makes it possible for us to give.

    As the above Bhagavad Gita quote says, we need to know how to give, to whom to give and in what way. Our practice makes us more sensitive and perceptive, and this will help us to know when, how and to whom should we give.

    When do we want to give? When we are joyful and experience gratitude for what we have; when our heart opens and we feel interconnected with all of humanity. This practice increases our joy and contentment and allows us to see that our happiness can never be complete if other people are suffering.

    Practicing Dana

    I participate, once or twice a year, in Vipassana retreats (a Buddhist silent retreat), and usually, there is no fixed price, instead, you are asked to practice Dana and to give as much as you feel like. This is very uncomfortable at first, because we are so used to having a price tag on every product or service we consume. We usually looking for ‘deals’ and try to get things at the lowest possible price. Money is indeed a very strong attachment of us. So, this custom of paying for retreats is a real practice of non-attachment! This is often called ‘economy of the heart’, rather than an economy based on supply and need. If you get nourished, you need to nourish back.

    How much to give?

    This is the question that tends to preoccupy towards the end of the retreat… Our tendency is to calculate and compare with the charges of similar workshops. But this is not the practice of Dana! Dana is simply giving full-heartedly for the sake of giving. Of course, many aspects come into consideration, if your resources are limited, then you need to limit your offering, or you will impoverish yourself. How much you give should depend on how important and valuable the thing is for you and how much you can give in the current state of your life. If you cherish something and want it to survive, you need to support it. You cannot be in a position of being a passive consumer.

    The guideline that I follow is that you think about a certain sum, and listen to your heart. If it does not shrink, then you raise it a bit and continue in this way, until you begin to sense a shriveling in your heart.

    In Iyengar Yoga this is not the custom; however, Iyengar’s guideline for teachers: ‘Always charge less than what you give’, is an instruction of Dana. The teacher is guided to concentrate on giving rather than on receiving.

    Helping our Indian friends

    Today, our friends in India are in great need. It’s time for us to give back to India, the land that originated our yogic path. Many yoga teachers have donated parts of their income from workshops recently to help support the health system in India, which is in dire need. I recently conducted an online workshop organized by Homevilla, an Iyengar Yoga center in Mumbai, and donated 20% of my earnings from that workshop to the charity organization in India.

    I would like to share with you an appeal I received from Mr. S. Ramadorai for the ”Oxygen for India Emergency Appeal’’:

    “You would have seen in the news and your social media feeds, the devastation that the pandemic is having in India right now. Each day, a new world record is set for the number of COVID cases. Hospitals have stopped admitting patients because they are running low on vital supplies and equipment including oxygen, leaving people helpless as they watch their loved ones die on stretchers outside the hospital doors.

    We need your support to help people today as we simply cannot stand by and do nothing. We guarantee that the British Asian Trust will use these funds to have the greatest impact.“

    Click here if you want to learn more about the ”Oxygen for India Emergency Appeal’’ and to donate.

    Summerize

    In closure, when we notice the blessings we have in our life, the abundance that surrounds us, and experience gratitude, we have taken the first step in our practice of Dana. The next steps transfer this internal experience into action, an action that helps in a small way to balance some of the great inequalities that exist in our world. Observe how this practice feels. Where are the areas of resistance, what thoughts arise, are you able to follow through on your good intentions?

    And finally, what do you experience upon completion of the practice? Has your heart opened even more?

    HOW WE WILL HELP

    Having consulted with the Indian and UK governments, our Advisors, and program partners in India, we have outlined a package of support that will complement what industry, government, and other charities are doing to help. The biggest difference we can make right now is to get as many ‘oxygen concentrators’ to hospitals as quickly as possible. Oxygen concentrators are alternate devices to oxygen cylinders – while cylinders contain a finite amount of oxygen supply, a concentrator continually recycles oxygen from the air and delivers it to the patient.

    THE DIFFERENCE YOU CAN MAKE

    Our ‘Oxygen for India Emergency Appeal’ will raise funds for these oxygen concentrators, and together with our local partners in India, we will rapidly deploy them to the hospitals and patients that need them most.

    For more information about how to donate click here To donate either visit this link: https://pages.razorpay.com/pl_H3xEowPLqqtAAF/view
    or transfer your donation to the following bank account:
    Name: British Asian India Foundation
    Bank: Axis Bank
    Account Number: 917020079499911
    IFSC Code: UTIB0000028
    Branch: Bandra West
        
  • Practicing Santosa: How to Foster Contentment and Joy

    Introduction

    Santoṣa (pronounced Santosha)– contentment, or joy – is one of the yogic qualities to be fostered and developed; it is the second component of Niyama – the disciplinary rules of personal practice that Patanjali provides in the Yoga Sutras. Santosa requires us to accept reality as it is and to see the ‘full part of our glass’. As B Grace Bullock and Emma Newlyn mention, this isn’t an easy task, especially in our modern western society. In a previous article, I explained the concept of Santosa. In this article, I present a practice that will help you to cultivate this important quality. We are practicing Santosa and this Niyama by acknowledging the good instead of concentrating on what is missing or what has gone wrong.

    Why is it important to practice Santosa?

    Practicing Santosa is important because our consciousness often leans toward the negative. It only takes waking up in the morning ‘on the wrong side’ to affect our entire day; even if we woke up cheerful, insignificant things going wrong can color our entire experience. If the car won’t start in the morning, or if it does start, but we get stuck in traffic, we get stressed and upset. One person with an unkind remark can instantly darken our mood; we may covet something someone else has and we become sad and frustrated.

    Our consciousness tends to yearn, always wanting more, never satisfied with what is and we already have. So quickly we forget the good in our life, all the simple and basic conditions that are more than enough to make us happy. We easily get used to and take for granted everything that functions well, everything that has succeeded. When we are healthy we never notice and appreciate the working of our body, but it only takes one small thing in our bodily functions to go wrong for us to understand how the proper functioning of all complex bodily systems cannot be taken for granted, and how happy we are when our health is good, albeit not necessarily perfect.

    Practicing Santosa

    The Five Reflections

    In Buddhist teachings, there are five observations or reflections of acknowledging goodness and gratitude. These can be the foundation for practicing Santosa. These five are:

    1. Health
    2. The well-being and abundance we have 
    3. The love we have received and are receiving
    4. The freedom and security we have
    5. The path, our practice, and our community of practitioners (Sangha)

    Appreciating Our Health

    The first reflection is health. The almost trite adage “health is the most valuable gift” is so very true. Health is a precondition for joy! We can celebrate our health and rejoice in it even when we experience health issues; our heart is beating, our lungs are functioning, we are able to breathe. The digestive system works, the rest of the systems also function relatively well. The very fact that we woke up in the morning is a reason to rejoice – we have another day to live! Another day to learn, practice, experiment, love! Remembering all these every day can increase your Santosa!

    Read the following reflection of the Zen Master, Tich Nhat Hanh

    When we are concentrating on our eyes, we find out very soon that we still have eyes in a good condition, and it is a wonderful thing to have eyes that are still in a good condition. It is a very basic condition for your happiness and for your peace. Those of us who have lost our eyesight, they cannot see anything. And it is their deepest desire to recover the capacity of seeing. They tell us that if they could see things again then it would be like going back to paradise. It is true. The paradise of forms and colors is wonderful. You need only sit down and open your eyes and look and breathe mindfully in order to be in paradise, in that paradise of forms and colors.

    Under the Banyan Tree by: Thích Nhất Hạnh

    Now take a moment for the following reflection:
    Sit upright, relax your body and connect to your breath for a few minutes. Then repeat:

    • How good it is that my body is still in good enough health
    • How blessed I am to have a body that can breathe, see, hear, walk, …

    Repeat this for a few minutes. Try to do it as often as you can during your day, especially when encountering difficulty or frustration. This will form a habit of practicing Santosa and experiencing Santosa!

    Appreciating Our Economical Wellbeing

    The second reflection – well-being is giving thanks for all the abundance in our life. This does not mean appreciating our luxuries, but rather, our basic needs like food, shelter, and clothing. We can take some time off the ‘rat-race’ of survival and devote this time to practice! Many, maybe even most people in our world do not have this privilege.

    Even if we may experience financial hardship, or are having a difficult time making ends meet, still, we have so much! We have a roof over our heads, a bed to sleep in, a refrigerator full of nourishing food, running water, and electricity. We can even shower or bathe with hot water (a luxury that was once available to only the upper echelons of society). We can regulate the temperature in our living environment, we have technological means that enable us to do so much. We have access to so much information; we can study any subject and virtually meet so many teachers of all topics and expertise. All this abundance that is available to us should not be taken for granted and is worth appreciating and being thankful for. Gratitude is the key to Santosa!

    Take a moment to reflect these:

    • How good it is that all my needs are being taken care of
    • How blessed I am to have all that I have!

    Appreciating the Love We Received

    The third reflection is the love we have received. The mere fact that we grew up to be human beings who can manage their lives reasonably well indicates we received a great deal of love as children. We had a supportive environment, loving and caring parents, and many others caregivers, many of which we don’t even remember, that made efforts to raise us with love and security. We were privileged to be educated and to learn in a caring environment. Even today, we receive love from family members, friends, and the community around us. We should appreciate this and have gratitude for all these people!

    Take a moment to reflect these:

    • How good it is that I got, and still get so much love and affection from family, friends…
    • How blessed I am to receive so much love and be able to reciprocate the love!

    Appreciating Our Freedom and Security

    The fourth reflection – freedom, and security. Even if it seems to us, especially now during the era of Covid (when this post was written), that our freedom and security are restricted or that our steps are narrowed, we still enjoy a great deal of freedom and security. We are allowed to think and say what we want, we can study any subject, we have the freedom of movement, the freedom of speech, the freedom to express opinions and protest. We feel secure enough to go everywhere and to manage our life normally without meeting threats at every step. It should not be taken for granted. Most of the world’s population does not have this privilege. Many parts of the world are ruled by dictatorial regimes that monitor their citizens and restrict their freedom in various ways. Many people in our world live at constant risk of war, terror, or armed robbery and never feel safe and secure. We, despite all the issues, still enjoy a great deal of relative freedom and security.

    Take a moment to reflect these:

    • How good it is that I feel secure and safe
    • How blessed I am to live in a place that provides relativly good freedom and security!

    Appreciating Our Yogic Path

    The fifth reflection is the path. We, yogis and yoginis, have a practice that helps us to lead a  better life and become better human beings. What a great privilege! The fact that the yogic tradition has been preserved for thousands of years, that countless teachers have practiced, preserved, and passed it down from one generation to the next. The fact that this tradition is widespread in the world and has reached our doorstep. The fact that there are plenty of good teachers from whom we can learn and be inspired to practice. The fact that there are enough people who are interested in yoga and want to practice and learn – without them there would be no teachers nor learning. All this should not be taken for granted. It is a privilege to live in a world where this learning is available to us and we should be thankful that we have it and that we have the motivation, dedication, diligence, and ability to practice and develop, making our lives and the lives of those around us better. A major reason for our contentment and joy (Santosa), and a great opportunity for practicing Santosa!

    Take e moment to reflect these:

    • How good it is that I found that path of yoga that brings so much joy to my life
    • How blessed I am to be able to practice and progress in this spirtual path!

    Make it a Daily Practice

    Recently, during my morning meditation, I have been systematically pondering these five reflections dedicating a few moments to each of them. This practice, like any mindfulness practice, is necessary in order to remember (the word ‘mindfulness’ stems from the Sanskrit word Smritti memory, remembering, or recollection). With practice, this mindset will become increasingly more present and available to us during our day-to-day life. When one practices acknowledging good on a daily basis, one becomes accustomed to a mind state of being thankful for all that is, acknowledging that we have been blessed with so much. If we persist in this there will be a greater chance that when things go wrong or when problems arise, we will remember to reflect on all the good we have. Instead of concentrating on the problem or disruption, we can stop for a moment and remember the good we have been fortunate enough to receive.

    Even while practicing asanas – when we encounter difficulty or limitation, when we experience rigidity and resistance, we can remember and appreciate all that we are indeed able to do and rejoice in it. It is not obvious that we can practice and despite the difficulties and limitations, we are still capable of so much! This deserves our gratitude.

    Here are three quotes that can help you to develop Santosa:

    Teach Me, My God; By Leah Goldberg 

    Translated from Hebrew by Eleanor Schlesinger

    Teach me my God
    to bless and pray the secret of a withered leaf
    the glitter of ripe fruit the freedom to see,
    to sense, to breath to know, to yearn, to fail.
    Teach my lips blessings and a song of praise
    as time renews itself, night and day
    so that my day will not be as yesterday or the day before
    so that my day does not become a habit.

    Every day, think as you wake up, today I am fortunate to be alive, I have a precious human life, I am not going to waste it. I am going to use all my energies to develop myself, to expand my heart out to others; to achieve enlightenment for the benefit of all beings. I am going to have kind thoughts towards others, I am not going to get angry or think badly about others. I am going to benefit others as much as I can.

    His Holiness the Dalai Lama XIV

    Translated from Hebrew by Eleanor Schlesinger.